How to create a new relationship paradigm right now
- Richard West
- 1 day ago
- 3 min read
If you're reading this you can probably already feel it. The old way of living and relating is becoming redundant, cancerous even. Give your energy to one reality construct for too long without it evolving and it creates all sorts of disease. Maybe you don't notice it at first - everything feels comfortable, known, safe even. But under the surface you know that your energy is moving towards something better, more conscious.
Why is this happening?
On a macrocosmic level, the planet is going through a grand shift. The movement of the earth's magnetic poles loosens the crust and leaves the magnetic shield more vulnerable. The sun is firing more and more CME's our way. Not to mention that we're entering a very high energy segment of the galaxy called the galactic current sheet, which happens every 12,000 years.
This creates instability in the reality construct we live in. On a physical level we're seeing more and more volcanic activity, earthquakes and storms. However, it also causes emotional and mental instability, especially if you have unconscious needs, attachments and patterns. It's a galactic cleansing and reset mechanism.
How does this affect your relationships?
If you're attuning to the new energies coming in then you'll likely to yearn for some kind of change. It may be a new way of communicating with each other. It might be redefining the conditions of the relationship to incorporate more freedom. It may be a fresh feeling of sovereignty. Or perhaps it's commitment to healing the wounds that have accumulated over the years. Maybe it's more emotional maturity, able to empathise without losing yourself in the emotional drama.
Everything is supporting this movement now, but it's not going to be easy. It may require some difficult conversations, some sacrifices. People may continue to want to relate to the old you, which will pull you back into the old paradigm. You might even question if this is the right move at all, especially if it causes activation of triggers in others.
It's essential at this point to make it as clear as possible to people: You're moving on energetically. If they can accept this new you and love you unconditionally, then they'll adjust. If not, it's ok, but you'll need to distance yourself from them.
By the way, here's a great discussion on how to process triggers when they arise:
Creating a new paradigm
There's no need to intention or strategise how this new way of relating is going to look. That only risks locking down the natural creative flow, which is already taking you where you need to go. Instead, try leaning into whatever expression of energy is naturally coming forth. It could be a sense of freedom and liberation, it could be a commitment to the inner work, it could be clearer boundaries, it could be playfulness and curiosity. It could be more coherency in communication, making the outer expression more clear and accurate of your inner state.
Leaning into these ways of being is naturally going to create powerful new circumstances for you. Be clear what you need to let go of in order to make space for something new to create. Then watch for the 'aha' moments where things seem to magically click into place. More aligned situations which reflect the new way of being.
You'll be sailing the winds of soul magic in no time.
Warm wishes,
Richard
P.s. If you find yourself somewhat stuck in this process or in need of support with wounds or karma that it creates, take a look at the 6-week individual program, Conscious Relating Reset. It might be for you.
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